HOW DO YOU MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY & EXCITED?


A friend was complaining the other day about his girlfriend, how she is by all accounts voracious and grouchy.

Another friend complained about not having a girlfriend since he doesn't have that much cash and according to him ''being in a relationship requires money, plenty of it.''

Contrary to the popular belief that money makes a woman happy, I beg to differ. It's quite obvious that an average man and women still see a woman as property to be bought. Many women still believe in that thought. Money, Money, Money.

 Does it mean women cannot work and earn their own money? NO. 
 Does it mean that even if you are a killer, cheater, and bad man as far you give women money it makes her happy? NO. 
 What happened to attention, affection, working together, fidelity and seeking her views before taking any action. Women are not a thing to buy. That orientation needs to be changed. 
 Does it mean all women with very rich partners are happy? NO.  

 Just because we are all women doesn't make us all the same neither does it mean we all act the same way. We are all unique in our ways. 

Here are a few things that are peculiar to most women

1. The main thing that you need to do is discover what is important to her. Reveal to her that she is important to you and just like the book review I was privileged to be a part of on Monday at my fellowship,''Five Love Languages'' by Gary Chapman was more about distinguishing both your very own and your partners 'essential main avenue for affection', and acting as needs be, may be sure increment the positive communications in a relationship. On the other hand, the book will help in finding numerous approaches to demonstrate your affection to your partner

2. Time. Just give her your time. It's worth more than a lot of other things.

3. Respects her views and always be a good listener. 

4. Help her grow, this should be vice versa since you are complementing each other.

I work. I earn money. I have never been a fan of money. True care and RESPECT is what matters.

PS: In all your doings, don't be a stingy partner.

We will talk about what makes a man happy tomorrow as I will be introducing a guest writer.

I'm not entirely certain I did justice to the issue so I have chosen to request the opinions of my revered readers. Kindly state what makes a woman happy in the comment section.



15 comments:

  1. Shower her with your love, your time, your attention, listen to her worries.. Surprise her with the simplest of things, remember surprises doesn't have to mean expensive😆😆

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    1. I agree with you Rofiat and yeah surprises doesn't have to mean expensive. The little things really go a long way. Thanks for joining in this conversation😗😗

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    2. I agree with you Rofiat and yeah surprises doesn't have to mean expensive. The little things really go a long way. Thanks for joining in this conversation😗😗

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  2. TRUST in a relationship is very essential and also support her in almost anything she ventures into as long it's profitable to her and as well as reputable.

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    1. Trust and support are essential, I agree with you dear. Thanks for joining in this conversation Julianah 😗😗

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  3. What makes woman A happy, I believe, will be different from what makes woman D happy since all women differ and have their peculiar areas of being happy.

    You already stated that we should find those areas, discover it and place premium on it, now as a guy or man, let me say.

    Meanwhile, to me, I look for Understanding in any engagement with any female folk.
    I feel understanding is key where you both understand each other than anyone else.
    It is this understanding that will propel both parties to doing things for each other that will suit them, sweet things, better things and for the love of each other.

    At some point, money is required but it shouldn't be the sole base for the relationship to stand. Note: I said, "At some point" and to add, it is needed in the relationship but shouldn't be the bases of the relationship.

    My view tho.🙇🙇🙇🙇

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    1. Understanding goes a long way,it's also an essential element in a relationship.

      But I actually believe that, "money doesn't necessarily guarantee happiness, but you can't be happy without money" so I agree with you saying "...shouldn't be the bases of the relationship."

      Thank you for joining in this conversation Joshua😗😗

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  4. Well said Vicky!!! There are other things that are "importanter"-Support, attention, listening to your partner's worries and encouraging her.

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    1. Importanter🤣🤣 I agree with you. I'm still reading "Act like a Lady, Think like a man" and it's opening my eye to many things about how men are wired, what drives them and all. I'll make a review on it very soon.

      Thanks for joining in this conversation Lodf😗😗

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  5. No one can surely exhaust this topic, we keep learning. But you have pretty much direcred the hammer where it should hit... Great one

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    1. It's a broad and lengthy topic, I'll say people should find what works for them and stick to it.

      Thanks for joining in this conversation Davies😗😗

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  6. Be humble and teachable, guys should not overglorify themselves in relationships.Respect the minds of women, this is very essential.

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    1. Respect a woman's intuition. Thanks for joining in this conversation

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  7. Attention, support and the likes is important.. Money is importanter

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    1. lol, well noted. Thanks for joining in the conversation

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